In our society, we are infatuated with the word “yes.” There are books that talk about the power of saying “yes.” People write about how your life could change for the better, if for one year, you just said “yes” to every request. That’s all nonsense. If you want to…
Happiness
How to Stop Seeking Validation from Others
As children, we are taught to seek validation from others. And when we are small, that is a good thing! The adults in our lives are able to tell us when we are making good choices (Good job eating your green beans!), versus bad ones (Don’t touch the hot stove!). …
How to Be Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable
There is no way to avoid occasionally being uncomfortable in life. Uncomfortable experiences happen to all of us, from time to time. For instance, conflict is uncomfortable. And so is change. Disappointment is uncomfortable, as well. But the key to being content in life isn’t to try to avoid those…
To Be Happier, Develop Your Self-Compassion
Are you too hard on yourself? Do you beat yourself up for even the smallest errors in judgment? Do you dwell on mistakes that you made years ago? If you do, realize that those negative thoughts are keeping you from being happy and successful. To eliminate those thoughts, you need…
5 Great Ways to Start Living Simply
In our society, there is a push for us to overcomplicate our lives. Advertisers try to get us to buy more stuff than we really need. We then have to live in overly large houses with extra closets and pantries to store all our excess stuff. Even at work, employers…